Right now, I can only think of three basic positions in which you can kiss. Sitting. Standing. Lying down. While the end result—the kiss—will be pretty much the same, each of those three scenarios presents lovely variations. Let’s begin with…

SITTING. This can be in the front seat of a car. You can also be seated on a sofa. Much cozier. Perhaps on a Ferris wheel. Very romantic and will never be forgotten. As you can see, there are endless possibilities but all involve the two of you seated next to each other. Now you know you are about to kiss her. She only suspects, maybe even hopes you will. At some point, you will look at her and your intentions will become clear. Now she knows she is about to be kissed. But when? Soon, yes. But how long will it take you to finally lean over, kiss her? Remember. This is your first kiss! If it is special, you are both going to remember it for the rest of your lives so DON’T RUSH IT! Look at her. See her looking back at you. Then kiss her. It should be a gentle kiss filled with the affection you feel for her at that moment. And if there is already a hint of love on your part, this kiss should convey that as well. Very, very few women like a tongue stuck down their throat on the first kiss. You might think it’s sexy, but it isn’t. It’s close to oral rape so don’t do that! This first kiss is all about the lips—and the softer the better.