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Sixty Sexy Techniques to Attract Love After Sixty |
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Written by Roberta Edgar
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Wednesday, 27 February 2008 |
For Men - Listen to her
- Communicate your thoughts and feelings
- Be kind, considerate, and courteous
- Smile
- Ask her what she needs or wants
- Look directly into her eyes
- Remember the last time you were complimented for something nice that you did. Do it again.
- Make her laugh
- Remember something wonderful that she said
- Resist the temptation to boast about yourself
- Get plenty of sleep
- Eat healthfully and exercise regularly
- Exercise good grooming and cleanliness
- Control your temper and do not use profanity
- Be informed but not a know-it-all
- Ask her opinion
- Do not be judgmental or critical
- Act as if she is the only woman in the room
- Do not talk about past wives or lovers
- Compliment but do not flatter
- Remember what she likes
- Remember special days like birthday and holidays
- Play romantic mood music while driving
- Plan interesting dates
- Be truthful, honest, and reliable
- Be supportive when she needs a shoulder to lean on
- Be faithful/Don’t lead her on
- Show interest in her family and friends
- Surprise her with flowers or a small token on occasion
- Write her a love letter
- Be protective of her
For Women - Be friendly and open
- Laugh openly
- Be your own person but respect his
- Make him feel good about himself when he is with you, and even when he is not
- Walk tall and straight
- Be interested in what he has to say
- Be clean of hair and body
- Smell fresh
- Be physically fit and active
- Get sufficient beauty sleep
- Avoid excess makeup and extreme hair and clothing styles
- Refrain from criticism, sarcasm, or judgment
- Be prompt and considerate
- Dress according to your own tastes, but be mindful of his
- Be courteous and warm
- Do not be demanding
- Try to see his point-of-view
- Send a thank you note when he does something nice
- Do nice things for him to let him know he is special
- Keep an even temperament
- Use appropriate language
- Do not appear superficial
- Reveal your depth of character
- Do not appear clingy
- Refrain from thinking or speaking negatively
- Do frequent affirmations in the mirror
- Be open to learning new things
- Be supportive when he is in a bad mood
- Be trusting, honest, and loyal
- Speak in a well-modulated voice
Please note: Most of these tips are not gender-specific and are generally interchangeable. You would do best to practice both lists appropriately. Not only will be a better partner, but you will have more understanding and compassionate for your counterpart.
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